Being a happily married man I believe that qualifies me to give you my perspective of what makes a good wife. First of all I know that men are different, but if you really want be a happy couple then read what I have to say.
Here, I will tell you what man wants in a relationship and what you can do to make yours a long lasting relationship. And for that, you are expected to bring a few changes in your overall behavior.
- First get to know what kind of a person you are: To expect anything from your husband, first try to know yourself- what you are, what you can give in your relationship n what you cannot. Because you cannot expect from him those things that you yourself cannot do for him. For instance, if you cannot withstand him having a relationship with any other woman outside your marriage, then how can you dare to expect that he will allow you to make male friends after marriage? It’s well said:
(Treat others the way you want yourself to be treated)
Always think twice before you make heavy demands or complain for something which you otherwise have never been able to fulfill, if asked for.
- Do not ignore your own feelings: Do not ever agree on what you do not believe in to avoid further frustration. You must feel good to do well. Otherwise this will encourage negative vibes between you two and with this; you will start feeling yourself being misunderstood. But this does not mean that you straightaway reject what your husband asks you to go for, rather the situation demands from you that initially, you say okay, whether somebody else is present or not, and try to express yourself later on about what you think about the matter so that he should be able to understand your feelings. Give each other some time for better understanding.
Your instant opposition will make him feel offended thereby presenting a wrong image of yours in his mind. He will think that you do not respect him due to which he will never be able to give you that much respect.
- Stay ever charming and attractive: Young lady, do not ever dare to neglect your oomph factor! The only thing in you that can always make you feel wanted n appreciated, is your sexual confidence. It will never let your husband crave for anybody else outside your marriage. If you want your husband to remain attractive as ever, then he also wants you to be enough charming to make other men jealous of him n to make your husband proud.
Some women take their the love of their husband for granted n never bother their own fading physical charm n remain in the illusion that love is blind;
(Whether I look attractive or not, he will always love me)
And here only, they commit a big mistake; love can be blind but not your man! Men need to see what they want to touch. So, my dear, just think once again, before it’s too late.
- Say yes to love-making at least once a week: Love-making is in fact, one of the main ingredients that build up a long-lasting marriage. Avoiding it may play havoc with your married life. So, try to respect the physical desires of your husband; do not take it as being something vulgar or obscene. After all, being more than mere husband-wife, you are life partners and if both of you won’t be open with each other then with whom else you will express your physical desires.
Actually, men are more expressive in this matter as compared to women so if you will consider your husband’s physical demands as being vulgar then he will feel offended in front of you and start seeking a better company outside. So, to avoid such a situation, you should change your attitude towards him. Try to play with each other’s bodies; after all it is the basic need of a human being. So, move ahead and let your sexiness overrule your senses n then see the magic it brings to your relationship!!!
I have listed the most important values that I cherish in a husband-wife relationship. You may have other ideas that work for you. If you noticed I did not mention anything about sex, because I feel that if my wife meets the criteria that I have mentioned above that she will love you to the fullest.